One Who Listens mentioned this personality test in his blog that points out why people hate you, rather than your more endearing qualities. This is what I got…
Bitch-Slap
You are 42% Rational, 28% Extroverted, 57% Brutal, and 28% Arrogant. You are the Bitch-Slap, the hallmark response of any abusive husband! You are more intuitive than others, focusing more on feelings than rational explanations, and you are also probably very brutual because you care more about yourself than the well-being of others. As most of us know, brutality combined with emotion often leads to BITCH-SLAPPING, which is why you are called “The Bitch Slap”. (This does not mean you are emotional, only that you are more affected by emotions than rationality when making decisions.) Another trait you possess is that you are very humble, which could mean you are insecure because very few people are brutal AND humble. Not only that, but you are also rather introverted, and any tendencies towards brutality you possess may also result from the fact that you bottle up your emotions and don’t show them to others until you explode in rage. Most likely, however, you are not a VIOLENT person, just someone who is rather selfish. At any rate, being a bitch-slap does not necessarily mean you will abuse your spouse; it only means you are rather intuitive, uncaring toward others, brutal, introverted, and possibly insecure.To put it less negatively:
1. You are more INTUITIVE than rational.
2. You are more INTROVERTED than extroverted.
3. You are more BRUTAL than gentle.
4. You are more HUMBLE then arrogant.
Might I point out that my husband is not abusive, he’s very caring. Obviously there was alot more weighting than I thought there would be on that question to which I answered I can sometimes be selfish! I would also considered myself emotional but capable of rationality rather than driven by emotion… not that I’m going to base the rest of my life on this test.